This is the latest post in what I half-jokingly call The Kimberlin Saga®. If you are new to the story, that’s okay! Not
everyone reads my blog. The short
version is that Kimberlin has been harassing me for over a year, his worst
conduct being when he attempted to frame me for a crime. I recognize that this might sound like an
incredible claim, but I provide video and documentary evidence of that fact; in
other words, you don’t have to believe my word.
You only have to believe your eyes.
So, if you are new to the story, go to this page and you’ll be able to catch up on what has been happening.
[Update: Please note that I have removed the first name of Ms.
Kimberlin at her request and left only her first initial, “T.” She is, after
all, a victim of sexual abuse and those kinds of reasonable requests will be
honored. While the moral right to privacy
of rape victims is not absolute, it seems to be reasonably asserted here.]
Update (II): Two major corrections on this piece. First, it turns out that T. Kimberlin
was not arrested based on any criminal charges, but instead based on Brett
Kimberlin’s false assertion that she was mentally ill. Fortunately the confinement was only last as
a few minutes until the judge could put a stop to it. Read for more details, here.
Second, I have learned through my
friend John
Hoge, that “[t]he speculation that [T.Kimberlin] might have been at a
disadvantage because she is not a native English speaker is wrong.” I sincerely apologize for the error. If she happens to read this, I hope she will
see I didn’t mean to offend but I can totally understand if she is offended. As I made it clear in the next
post, I see her as another target of Brett Kimberlin’s evil, his lies, his
threats, his abuse of the legal system. I
see her as no different than dozens of women I helped who found themselves in
abusive marriages. I have a special
hatred in my heart for men who do not treat their wives with the love, respect
and honor they deserve. As one person once
said, “women are jewels, not punching bags.”
Probably after all the lies Brett
Kimberlin has told about me, she thinks I am an evil man, too. I wouldn’t blame her. I wouldn’t even get angry with her for it. But regardless of how she feels about me, I am rooting for
her.
Update: Offline and online, friends are making the case that the “1” is really a “7.” First, dear reader, I gave you the evidence to make up your own mind. So feel free to do so. They have made the argument that in other cases it is clear she is making a “1” as just a simple slash. But at the same time, Ms. Kimberlin has been present at several of the hearings involved, within the last seven months. Which suggests they have not been separated this long. But ultimately, it’s your call and I respect anyone who feels differently. I feel confident in my opinion, but I could be wrong.
We now resume our original post, as is.
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First, dear readers, a warning.
Some of the language heard in court today was extremely raw. And I think it is relevant to this
story. I normally try to keep this blog
relatively family friendly, but this is one case where I am making an
exception. Sorry in advance for any
offense.
So Mr. Hoge and I decided to make
an excursion this morning to witness the hearings related to the peace order
and domestic violence protective order that I reported on yesterday. After all, I had noticed in the past that
Kimberlin had a way of blaming me for the conduct of people who are complete
strangers to me, so I wanted to know what was happening. Literally as the post
went up describing these and other filings appearing on the Maryland Judiciary
Case Search, I was waiting in court to see what happened.
But first we have to start by
amending the list of filings. As I told
you there was a domestic violence protective order. We know now this was filed by Kimberlin’s
wife, T. Normally I wouldn’t give
you her name, but frankly anyone who wanted to know her real name will shortly
be able to find out just by searching the same Maryland Judiciary Case Search
for reasons that will become obvious as this piece proceeds forward. So that was styled T. Kimberlin v. Brett Kimberlin.
And now we know that the peace
order was filed by Jay-Richard Elliott, whom I referred to in the last post as
Jay Elliott. And while I do not think
race is inherently relevant, it becomes relevant when dealing with racists—and
we have long established that Kimberlin is a racist. Mr. Elliott is listed in Kimberlin’s criminal
charges as African American, indicating how Kimberlin saw him. Anyway, Mr. Elliott had filed a peace order
against Kimberlin for harassment.
And apparently Kimberlin filed
his own peace order against Mr. Elliott.
This was for harassment.
And then there are the criminal
charges. As I reported earlier today,
Mr. Elliot was charged with a violation of Md.
Criminal Law Code § 7-203, referred to as “unauthorized removal of
property” as well as harassment.
Meanwhile, Mr. Elliott fought back, filing charges yesterday (but not appearing until today) for harassment, electronic harassment, and misuse of a telephone. Regular readers are well aware of the harassment and electronic harassment laws by now, and I have previously discussed the misuse of a telephone statute, here. All told, Kimberlin could go to prison for four and a half years if convicted of all of them.
And then there is a new charge
filed against T. Kimberlin by Brett Kimberlin. We literally know nothing about what she was
actually charged with, but we have reason to believe that it is similar to the
charge against Mr. Elliott. Why we say
this will become obvious as the story unfolds.
So we showed up this time at a
Silver Spring District Courthouse, but it was still a Montgomery County
case. T. was already there, sitting
close to who was later revealed to be Mr. Elliot. He was accompanied with a man he later
identified as his brother. He told the court
he was a potential witness but he never testified.
Kimberlin showed up later,
wearing nice suit and ugly sneakers, with his mother, Carolyn (who was present
on the day Kimberlin first trying to frame me for assault), and his two
children in tow. I will not give you
their real names, but simply refer to them as the teenager and the
pre-teen. Both of them are daughters,
and both are quite lovely young women who would make most parents proud.
Kimberlin evidently saw Mr. Hoge and
I sitting in the courtroom before he entered.
I heard from inside something like “sh-t” and “they’re here” and we
witnessed several members of the family pointing us out. Later, when the case was first called,
Kimberlin complained that we were supposedly stalkers and that some of the testimony was going to
be salacious and asked that the court carry out the hearing in chambers or
otherwise exclude us. The Judge Patricia
Mitchell ruled correctly that court proceedings were public affairs, and
Kimberlin just had to live with it.
Incidentally, I will give high
praise to Judge Mitchell. She was one of
the best District Court judges I had seen in action so far in this sort of
thing, very accommodating when she had to be and very tough when she had to be
that, too. I won’t say she was the best, but I would rank her first
among equals.
Moving on, there was a snafu
where Kimberlin didn’t have all of the people present who he wanted to testify
(perhaps gone to the restroom or something), so they postponed the hearing at
that point and heard other cases. Ironically,
no other witnesses but the parties testified.
And then it was resumed at around 11:00 a.m. the multiple hearings ending about noonish.
First up, we have T.
Kimberlin. I don’t want to criticize the
woman overly much, but I think due to language issues, she didn’t present her
case very well. She admitted Kimberlin
had not actually struck her, but claimed “mental abuse” but didn’t go into
details. She also complained that
Kimberlin kept coming to her work and trying to get her fired, which is
probably rightfully considered harassment, but as I pointed out in the last
post, you can’t get a protective order for harassment alone. So her petition was denied and given the
quality of the testimony before Judge Mitchell, that seems like the right
outcome.
By contrast, take a gander at her
written petition for a protective order:
Notice toward the last page of
it, she writes “He told me if I will try to take my kids with me he will hurt
me and I will see what will happen to me.”
Any man telling a woman that is frightening, but Kimberlin has a body
count and a history of laying bombs. I
suspect that if Ms. Kimberlin said that in court and told the court about
Kimberlin’s past, that she would have walked away with that petition. Perhaps she should file for an appeal, or
simply re-file. And in any case, she
needs to get a good lawyer.
Notice also it raises other
details. She has been separated from
Kimberlin allegedly for a month. Mr.
Hoge and I went back and forth about that—does that look like a 7 or a 1, when
she talks about how long the separation has been? I will go with it being a “1” because it fits
with other details others have provided.
And notice particularly another
allegation. She claims on the second
page that Kimberlin has had her arrested on false charges in the past, raising
the dark possibility that Kimberlin has literally been using he courts of
Maryland as a means of controlling a wife that plainly want to leave him.
Next up, we had Jay-Richard
Elliot. The story he told was pretty
straightforward: Kimberlin was emailing him, texting to his boss, trying to
get him fired, putting up fliers at his the pizza place he worked at urging
people to boycott them for one reason or another. In other words, Kimberlin was trying to get
him fired to and generally harassing him.
He testified that he had told Kimberlin to stop this behavior in
November. And thus the judge correctly
ruled that he had grounds to claim that Kimberlin was harassing him, and issued
a temporary peace order. So we will be
doing this again next week, I suppose.
Here is his petition for a peace
order:
The fuller picture that started
to emerge is that Kimberlin was jealous of Elliott since last November. Elliott’s testimony left me unclear if
Elliott was in a romantic relationship with Ms. Kimberlin or not.
And please note that Kimberlin
was not asked to respond to the charges.
The judge gave Kimberlin the chance to have a final hearing in all three
cases and he refused and the judge evidently took the attitude that if she was
determining if a temporary order would issue, she would exclude the respondent
from testifying.
After that, came Kimberlin
seeking a peace order against Mr. Elliott and that is where the fireworks
really started and a strong picture of what was going on started to
emerge. Now one should exercise some
caution in believing anything Kimberlin said, but this was so humiliating to
Kimberlin, while not actually serving any useful purpose, I suspect it is
true. According to Kimberlin on June 20,
2013, T. said she was taking the car and going to the beach for three
days. Brett suggested that she take the
teenage daughter with her, and she refused.
So she left alone. And then she
never came back.
Now this car allegedly belonged
to one of his non-profits, loaned to her as a perk for working for one of them,
and he said that he placed a GPS tracker on it.
He discovered that she had driven not to any beach, but all the way down
to El Paso, Texas. Evidently she had
subsequently returned to the area, but had not returned home. Kimberlin also looked into her phone records
and discovered she had been calling Mr. Elliott a great deal. He figured out that the two of them had run
off together, or so he alleged.
So Brett decided she was fired
and had to return the car to him. He also
told Elliott that he was not to ride in the car or drive it or else he would be
charged with unauthorized use of the vehicle.
And this is where the story gets actually pretty awesome. Now this is all based on Kimberlin’s
allegations, but if they are true Elliott truly didn’t give a crud about
Kimberlin’s attempt to intimidate him.
This is in keeping with his pre-trial demeanor, where he was joking and
laughing and I heard T. tell him “this is serious.” He didn’t seem to think it was particularly
serious even then.
Kimerblin said that Elliott was
threatening to tell everyone about his past, to buy a billboard and put it
up. He also quoted texts from Elliot
allegedly saying that Kimberlin was “angry because I am fucking your wife,” talking
about destroying the tires by the way he was driving the car, and declaring
that he was “doing donuts in your car while your wife sucks my dick.” I might be a word or two off, but that is the
gist of what he was saying.
Now you might wonder reasonably
why I am quoting it and that is because Kimberlin said this all in the presence
of his two daughters. He didn’t censor
it, water it down or anything, as far as I can tell. He said “sucks my dick.” He said, “fucking your wife.” And he said all of this in front of his
children. It reminds me of the John
Norton incident when Kimberlin was so enraged at what Norton allegedly did (and
the court found wasn’t true) that he drove like a maniac to follow Norton, with his own daughter in the back,
endangering her safety.
More disturbingly, the word “negro”
came up several times in the alleged texts.
I cannot quote them exactly, but the way they were read suggested that Elliott
was responding to Kimberlin calling
him one. I would be very curious to see
the larger context involved.
He also allegedly said some stuff
about kicking Kimberlin’s butt, or something to that effect, which is not
ordinarily appropriate, but with Kimberlin I have to wonder if it was in
response to threats from Kimberlin, if he even said it. Kimberlin seemed even more out of control
than usual in dealing with these people.
Elliott was not given a chance to speak on his own behalf in that
specific instance so we have not heard his side of it.
The judge was absolutely disgusted
by all of this, but asked Kimberlin a key set of questions. Did you ask Elliott to stop? When did you do so? And did he continue to contact you after you
asked him to stop? The answer was, that
Kimberlin did ask Elliott to stop and then... Elliott stopped.
So it was not harassment at
all. We can expect the harassment
charges against Elliott to be dropped.
Incidentally, here is a scan of
Kimberlin’s petition for a peace order:
So up until then I found most of
it amusing and interesting. And then
things got disturbing. Suddenly we saw T.
being led away in handcuffs. When I got
out into the hall, I couldn’t find anything in the Maryland Judiciary Case
Search about it and up until this time I still can’t. But one has to suspect it was based on the
same kinds of charges he filed against Elliott.
But we cannot be sure.
In other words, he is giving his
wife the full “Aaron Walker” treatment: try to get her fired, charge her with
crimes that are, more likely than not, false, all in an effort to coerce her behavior. It’s like he is a wife beater, but instead of
actually hitting her, he uses the machinery of the courts to abuse her. Indeed, he is sending a message to her in
that hearing that if she dares to try to take his children away—that was one of
forms of relief she was seeking, custody of her children—he will have her
arrested. This bears a disturbing similarity
to the ambush tactics he had used against myself and Seth Allen, as noted by Patterico:
Kimberlin has used
this tactic before. Last year, in a lawsuit against Seth Allen, he had Seth
Allen arrested for harassment when Allen showed up to a mandatory hearing in
the civil suit.
Now, in that case,
the criminal complaint was arguably quite justified, as Allen had mused about
killing Kimberlin in an email which was duly and promptly reported to police.
If someone made a statement like that about me, I’d go to the authorities too.
But in the process,
Kimberlin learned a technique that he later used against Walker: namely, having
your critics arrested in civil court.
Namely, this serial
litigant forces his critics into his jurisdiction with a frivolous civil
action. If Kimberlin’s critics complain that the action is frivolous, he calls
that criticism “harassment,” and through a process of seeking frivolous peace
orders and/or filing frivolous criminal complaints, obtains an arrest warrant
for the critic. When the critic shows up to court as required, he or she is
arrested on the trumped-up charges.
Success! The story
becomes about the critic’s arrest. The critics look worse because authorities
seem to take Kimberlin’s side; and he gets the satisfaction of putting his
critics behind bars, even if for a short time.
Alternatively,
Kimberlin and his supporters can use the threat of arrest to try to frighten
civil litigants into staying out of court. After Allen’s arrest last year, he
was very afraid to go back to court, because Kimberlin continually alleged that
Allen’s blogging violated a peace order. Kimberlin supporters flooded Twitter
with messages declaring Allen was going to be arrested at the next hearing for
blogging. Allen almost decided never to go back to court.
It’s a Catch 22 for
people who want to blog about public figures. You either go to court and risk
arrest on a bogus criminal charge, or stay away and risk default on a bogus
civil claim.
The combination of
frivolous civil and criminal actions is a creative abuse of process and it’s
bound to be repeated — until judges start noticing that Kimberlin repeatedly
makes false statements in the course of filing flurries of court actions
against his critics.
It is sinister enough when it is
done to a blogger, but in a way it is even creepier when it is used to bludgeon
a spouse into obedience.
I will say tonight that Mr. Hoge
and I are seriously considering creating some kind of legal defense fund for
Ms. Kimberlin. Kimberlin has once again
used the power of the state to oppress another.
Let me say one other thing. I never celebrate the break-up of a good
marriage or one that is capable of repair.
But there are times in my life—particularly when I worked with battered
women—where I positively worked to break up irredeemably bad marriages. These events have convinced me that this is,
at the very least, a psychologically abusive marriage. So, yes, I will positively root for Ms. Kimberlin
to free herself from it, and hopefully even to take her kids away from him.
Indeed, back when I was helping abused
women, I was taught a simple practice: always refer to the woman as “Ms.”
rather than “Mrs.” It was a subtle way of
making the woman think of herself as no longer a married woman. And sharp eyed readers will notice I have
done exactly that with Ms. Kimberlin. I genuinely
pray she beats these abusive charges and gets her kids away from their
sociopath of a father and I will not apologize for feeling that way.
Anyway, folks, stay tuned. There is surely more to come.
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Disclaimer:
I have accused some people,
particularly Brett Kimberlin, of
reprehensible conduct. In some cases, the conduct is even
criminal. In all cases, the only justice I want is through the
appropriate legal process—such as the criminal justice system. I do not want to see vigilante violence
against any person or any threat of such violence. This kind of conduct is not only morally
wrong, but it is counter-productive.
In the particular case of Brett
Kimberlin, I do not want you to even contact him. Do not call him. Do not write him a letter. Do not write him an email. Do not text-message him. Do not engage in any kind of directed
communication. I say this in part
because under Maryland law, that can quickly become harassment and I don’t want
that to happen to him.
And for that matter, don’t go on
his property. Don’t sneak around and try
to photograph him. Frankly try not to
even be within his field of vision. Your
behavior could quickly cross the line into harassment in that way too (not to
mention trespass and other concerns).
And do not contact his
organizations, either. And most of all, leave his family alone.
The only exception to all that is
that if you are reporting on this, there is of course nothing wrong with
contacting him for things like his official response to any stories you might
report. And even then if he tells you to
stop contacting him, obey that request. That
this is a key element in making out a harassment claim under Maryland law—that
a person asks you to stop and you refuse.
And let me say something
else. In my heart of hearts, I don’t
believe that any person supporting me has done any of the above. But if any of you have, stop it, and if you
haven’t don’t start.
One has to feel for Ms. Kimberlin. Having your children used as a weapon against you is about as low as a person can get. Using them & the law to get you arrested is a new low.
ReplyDeleteI think the document says she has been separated for 7 months, as the little line goes through the seven is an old math way of differentiating a 1 from a 7 for people reading. I still do it to this day whenever I write a 7.
How would one go about informing the court that a perjurer is trying to testify when they are not allowed to? I certainly hope someone brings that to the attention of Ms. Kimberlin's lawyer or whomever she gets to help her to deal with this.
Regarding the length of separation - by comparing her birth date as written on the first page to where she sings and dates the document that she's been separated for 7 months.
ReplyDeleteThat woman needs a lawyer.
ReplyDeleteShe definitely needs a good one. Soonest.
DeleteHeaven help Tetyana, or anyone else who is ever so foolish as to willingly associate themselves with Brett Kimberlin.
ReplyDeleteAran, I just noticed something really, really disturbing. Ms. Kimberlin had their first child when she was 18. If I did the math correctly, she was pregnant at 17. How old was Kimberlin at that time?
ReplyDeleteWell, she was born in 1980, so she was -2 when Kimberlin was arrested for the fake ID thing and that silly little bomb incident. Kimberlin was 27 at that time, so adding 17 plus 2 to 27 would make our little charmer Kimberlin 46...
DeleteHe's actually 59 years old.
DeleteYes, it's a 7. Look at the date by her signature on the Petition for Protection. 7-7-13, slashes through both 7's.
ReplyDeleteThat is a crossed seven. Commonly used in Europe and in several mathematical fields to ensure discernment from a one. Similarly her Z's will probably be crossed to distinguish from a two.
ReplyDeleteWe all know that Kimberlin has a long history of attraction to underage girls.
ReplyDeleteAnd, Elliot must be a brave guy.
What's written is clearly a 7, not a 1. The line through it is done precisely to distinguish the written character to be a 7 as opposed to a 1, similar to a zero being written as Ø, to distinguish it from the letter O.
ReplyDeleteBTW, writing sevens this way is very common in Europe, and is even taught in school as mandatory usage in Eastern Europe. Where is Ms. Kimberlin from?
I would advise against you setting up a legal defense fund for Ms. Kimberlin. On the one hand, there is the possibility that she will reconcile with Brett, and more importantly, on the other hand, Brett might interpret this as you trying to break up his marriage, thus leading to more legal actions and harassment against you.
ReplyDeleteIf Ms. Kimberlin's friends want to set up a legal defense fund for her, that would be fine, but it doesn't seem like a good idea for you to be involved with it.
Aaron, if there's someone who could refer Ms. Kimberlin, there's a House of Ruth affiliate she can turn to. They are very effective advocates and supports for abused women.
ReplyDeleteI hope that she gets away from the evil bastard. The only reason that I've not publicly commented on this vile pile of excrement is that I too live in MD and don't want the hassles from this guy. I just can't afford to pay the courts costs.
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ReplyDeleteYeah, that's a classic European seven. A European would read our sevens as ones. (Sometimes they write ones like an "A" without the middle bar.) Living in Israel, I always cross my sevens.
My deepest sympathy to you and your wife regarding the persecution this convicted terrorist put you through. I hope you have both found employment since he frightened your boss into letting both of you go.
He sounds like a classic con-man, even managed to hook a Russian woman half his age. Unfortunately, normal people are susceptible to con-men, because they don't fit the pattern of behavior he expect. Reminds me of Bill Clinton's Dad, W.J. Blythe, Jr., only the latter wasn't vicious. Or Clinton himself, who was.